Veteran Nollywood actor Chiwetalu Agu has urged women to focus on self-development and independence before getting married.
In a video shared on his Instagram page and cited by PUNCH Online on Monday, Agu stressed that marriage should not define a woman’s identity or sense of fulfillment. Instead, he encouraged women to strive for mental, spiritual, and financial stability before tying the knot.
“The best advice I can give you as a lady before you embark on the journey of marriage is to be a complete woman before you marry. Establish yourself as a woman before you marry. Make sure you are mentally, physically, spiritually, and financially stable. Marriage should complement you, not complete you,” he said.
Agu’s message comes amid ongoing conversations about gender roles and financial independence in relationships. He emphasized that women should invest in themselves, their dreams, and their passions, warning that complete reliance on a partner can be risky.
“Before you marry, build yourself up. Even if you are not financially stable, at least make sure you have something to do. At least make sure you have a business idea or a proper insight into what being independent is all about. God forbid if your husband divorces you or dies and you have nothing of your own, then you’ll have to start life all over again,” Agu added.
The actor has often used his platform to promote personal growth, self-reliance, and empowerment, urging women to view marriage as a beautiful addition to life rather than a measure of their worth.
