Veteran Nollywood actress Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde has cautioned couples against rushing into marriages where one partner’s family remains openly hostile, warning that starting a lifelong union without support can make the journey unnecessarily difficult.
Speaking on The Morayo Show, the actress advised that partners should first make sincere efforts to build understanding with resistant relatives rather than ending relationships too quickly.
According to her, some families initially oppose relationships because of misunderstandings or preconceived notions that can change with patience and genuine engagement.
“If the family of your spouse doesn’t like you, try everything you possibly can to make them understand you,” she said.
However, Omotola noted that not all opposition can be resolved. She explained that certain relatives may hold deep-seated prejudices based on ethnicity, background, or personal bias, making acceptance unlikely regardless of effort.
“There are some parents that are just hell-bent on not liking you. They already have prejudices. There is nothing you’re going to do,” she added.
She also warned that even families who appear to soften their stance may revert to hostility later, creating instability in the relationship.
“Marriage is already hard enough”
Omotola stressed that marriage itself comes with significant challenges, and entering such a commitment without family backing can add unnecessary emotional strain.
“Marriage is already an institution where you’re going to face a lot. It’s a lifetime journey. It’s not worth starting with people who are against you,” she said.
She concluded that couples should think carefully before committing to relationships where hostility persists, as strong family support often plays an important role in a successful marriage.
